THINGS I WOULD TELL MY YOUNGER SELF IF I HAD THE CHANCE

 

Have you ever wished you could go back in time and give your younger self some advice? In hindsight, we often realize that we could have made different choices or approached situations differently if we had known then what we know now. While we cannot turn back time, we can take a moment to reflect on our past experiences, growth, and learning and share the lessons we have learned with others. In this blog, we will explore the things I would tell to my younger self if i had the chance, from practical tips to emotional guidance. Join me on this journey of self-discovery and reflection as we delve into the wisdom i have gained from my past experiences.

Don't Rush Everything

This is the first thing I will tell to my younger self. I've been battling in my adult life lately, that sometimes there are things that I can't handle anymore and I can't do because I've never done it before. I would also tell my younger self to treasure every second and enjoy every minute he had. I would also urge him to never yearn for faster time, because we never know what will happen in the next day. I would also advice him to be careful on what he wish for. 

Now, I am battling in maturity. I wish I hadn't gotten older. 

Enjoy Every Moment with Papa

If I had the chance to speak to my younger self, this is what I would tell her: "Appreciate every moment you have with Papa" and I wanted to advise him to embrace and kiss Papa whenever he got the chance. Say, "I love you every day," because I never say that to him. 

If I could also talk with may Papa, I will wish him to stay with us so that I wouldn't have to struggle with things that he should be doing.

 Don't Be A Consistent Achiever

I would definitely tell him this because I am currently under a lot of pressure now. Everyone in my family keeps an eye on me, which I don't want. To be honest, I am not that good that everyone expects me, I am not that Brainly who knows how to solve mathematical equations in 5 seconds, write a simple essay in 5 minutes, or simply write a correct sentence.

I would also advise him to be just an ordinary student who does not strive for a good grade. I would tell him this so that now, we not suffer so much depression. 

 Beg Papa to Stay with Us

If indeed i were given a chance to talk to my younger self, i will tell him to convince our papa to let us stay in Laguna so that we we are not struggling to live on where we are now, so that we are living the best of our lives, so that we can do what we want.

Be Yourself!

Yes I will also tell him this, so that we don't have to struggle to hide who I truly we are. I'm sick of faking and hiding my real self. I wanted to be myself, i want to do the things i really want. 

I'll will also advise him that he shouldn't be afraid to show who he truly is. I'll tell him to be true to himself, so he won't try to hide who he truly is, so he won't be afraid to come out, and most importantly, he must be happy today

 Looking back at our past selves can be a powerful tool for growth and self-discovery. We may cringe at some of our past mistakes, but it's important to acknowledge that those experiences have shaped who we are today. Reflecting on our past can help us gain a deeper understanding of ourselves, our values, and our beliefs. By sharing the lessons i have learned with my younger self, i can not only find closure but also guide and inspire others who might be going through similar experiences. Remember, it's never too late to make a change, learn something new, or pursue your dreams. Keep moving forward, because with each passing day, you have the power to create the life you want and deserve.